Monday, August 04, 2008

Shots of Vancouver

This was taken while attempting to cross the Fraiser river. I was ahead of rush hour but still got caught behind an accident.

These was taken along the marsh at the edge of the Straights of Georgia it was a beautiful little walk on what turned out to be a very pleasant afternoon. You can see the marsh, the shipping lanes and the mountains. We don't have any of these in Dallas.

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Surgery

Maya was bundled off to the vet this morning for her surgeries.  She has been spayed and partially declawed.  I called to check on her this afternoon and was told that everything went well but she had a hang over and was very "cranky".  She comes back home tomorrow.

Another travel day

And I was so focused on the possibilities of spending my afternoon alone in Vancouver that I skipped an obvious step.  I was due to land around 1:00 PM and figured I would head off towards the Greater Vancouver.  It is a little pricier than I'm used to but it is probably better too.  But then I thought I might go hike around in one of the area parks... there are so many to choose from.  Of course with the temperature 40 degrees cooler I was ready to be outside doing something, anything.

Dallas is expecting 103-105 degrees every day this week.  It was only 57 here in BC today but it was raining!  I didn't even bring a coat.  Instead of hiking I went shopping at least I was dry.  I picked up a warm-up jacket which I was pleased to put on immediately and I have yet to remove.  Cold and wet is different than cool and dry.

Now I'm drinking a fresh margarita, waiting on my huge, juicy steak and watching old hockey highlights.  I'll head back to the hotel early and read until I fall asleep.

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Trapped

Did I say I loved Chicago?  It must be because I don't usually travel through the mass of humanity that we keep penned up in O'Hare.  I arrived nearly four hours prior to my flight.  I have books so that isn't a hardship.  I actually managed to kill two hours in line waiting for a table in a restaurant.  I spent another hour drinking margaritas, eating a really good burger and chatting with other travelers.  Then they cancelled my flight.  No warming, no delay, no fall back plan, no hotel.  Just a vague direction towards the Closed Customer Service desk.  I spent a full hour on hold waiting for our corporate travel agent's emergency service.  During that hour I managed to misplace my book (with only 5-6 chapters left to go) and find a self serve customer service kiosk.

I was able to find that my replacement flight doesn't leave for 24 hours but I can stand by for a 6 AM flight or a 5 PM flight.  I also found the number for the local emergency hotle hookup people.  It was while I was holding for them that Am Ex finally picked up.  It turns out that Am Ex got me the same room for a whole lot less.

I made a bunch of new friends while waiting for the poorly marked shuttle bus.  The were people on my bus that spent 6 hours sitting on the runway befoe being retuned to the terminal.  There flight out isn't until Friday.  There were people aiming for Calgary, San Diego, Denver, Philly, Atlanta, Toronto and Dallas all with canceled flights on just my bus.

In the morning I plan to catch the 5AM shuttle bus and hope to make the 6AM flight.  If that doesn't work I'll come back to the hotel for a shower and then take the train in to the city.  My next flight possibility isn't until early evening.

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Heat

It takes on a whole new meaning when you have a young kitten, doesn't it?  Maya's surgery schedule has just been accelerated by about 6 weeks.

The price of rice and other minutiae

I had to pay a premium at lunch today for ordering a rice side dish.  It was only an extra 20 cents but it caught me off guard.  I've been paying the same price for my spicy three piece chicken strip basket for years.  At least they haven't taken the red beans and rice all the way off of the menu.  We've had to stop buying our rice from our local discount warehouse because there seems to be a shortage.  Now we have to pay a premium price for buying in small quantities and we have to buy it much more often.  They've imposed a limit on how much rice can be purchased at a time.

 

For dinner the other night we ordered a pizza and pasta combination and had it delivered.  It is rare for us to order pizza and when we do Daddy usually goes to pick it up to get the best price.  But this was a treat (and Daddy is still out of town).  They've added a delivery charge.  I don't think I've been charged for a pizza delivery (or a Chinese food delivery) since high school.  It almost makes me feel better about having to pay to take luggage on the plane.

Chi-town

I'm off to Chicago for the night.  This will be a pretty quick trip with no chance to catch up with old friends or to experience the city.  It's too bad, I love Chicago when it is not winter but I hardly ever get there anymore.  It will be 9 PM-ish before we get to the hotel.  Tomorrow is a full day audit at a vendor then straight back to the airport for the return flight.

 

Monday, July 21, 2008

Highlight

One of the highlights of any trip to TN is almost always the hiking. We hiked part of the way to Laurel Falls. We made it as far as Arch rock before turing back. We had to cut the day short in order to leave time for a boat outing in the evening. The hiking was particularly pleasant this year as the streams were running full, the temperature was cool enough to be pleasant and the rhododendron were still blooming (more white than pink) in canopies over the trail.

Community Church



The kids and I joined Mom, John and Cousin Wendy for church while we were in TN. Actually the kids and I sat up front while John and Mom were working as ushers and acolytes.

Par 3


Our local Par 3 golf course was our weekend destination with the kids. We'd promised Sunil that he could actually play a little bit of golf for change. He's already had us out at the driving range twice since he's been home. Unfortunately UTD is expanding their campus across what used to be the Par 3 course. They are moving the whole works about a mile North but the new course won't open until October. So we stuck to the driving range and a round of miniature golf.

Saturday, July 19, 2008

Safety

Sunil found a new spot to sit for breakfast.  It is a challenge for him to eat without getting climbed by the cat.

Friday, July 18, 2008

Melting Pot

Sunil has opted to spend his "You are an only child celebration" at a fondue restaurant called The Melting Pot. I can't wait... I love fondue.

Autumn but not Fall happens in Texas

According to the calendar all four seasons happen here, much like everywhere else.  In actual practice every place has its own twist on the seasons.  The two most obvious regional differences here are that:

 

1)       Spring lasts about three days and those days are not sequential and

2)       The leaves don't fall off of the trees in the "Fall". 

 

Instead they are pushed off of their limbs by the new growth leaves that appear on those three Spring days or they fall off when the temperatures push up past 100.  Our backyard is carpeted under a thick layer of leaves at present.  Even after 14 years it still seems wrong.

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Swiffers, Etc

One of the latest home cleaning phenomena in the US is the "Swiffer".  The original Swiffer is a flat plate attached to an extendable rod.  Disposable dust clothes are attached to the bottom of the plate and used to sweep/dust floors.  It was such a raving success (or their business models so good) that there are now a half dozen different types of Swiffer.  There are wet clothes and dry clothes, self wetting Swiffers, vacuum assisted Swiffers and extra large Swiffers.  Sunil's favorite is a less like a Swiffer (with disposable clothes) and more like a carpet sweeper, but it is rechargeable, lightweight and purchased from the cleaning aisle of the grocery store (apparently everywhere except Texas).  Grammylyn got Sunil hooked on it and I hoped to horn in on his enthusiasm to get some free cleaning out of him here too.  But alas, I can't find this version and once you've tried this one the others are definitely second or third rate.

Sunday, July 13, 2008

Underwoods

A motley crew...

Saturday, July 12, 2008

Tubing

Today was tubing on the lake with the Underwoods (pictures to come later). This was Sunil's first time out.  It is a double tube so I went with him.  He was almost too small to lay across the well and I was almost too big.  If I relaxed my abs my feet would fall down and I would I drag us all the way over even at slow speeds.  If Sunil relaxed his abs he'd fall in to the hole and wasn't able to pull back out.  It was wonderful.

Unto These Hills

We watched a drama about the history of the Cherokee Indians.  I've seen the show before but it was 30 years ago or more.  It was an excellent show but we still have a two hour plus drive home.

Friday, July 11, 2008

Dragon's Tail

We drove the Dragon's Tail on the way to NC tonight.  It is best experienced on a motorcycle but we used the minivan.  The tail boasts 318 curves in eleven miles.

Hazards of the game

This is the end of hole seven.

Tournament

It's tournament day.  Wish them well.

Thursday, July 10, 2008

Spirit Award

Grammylyn says that both kids earned spirit awards for their enthusiasm this afternoon.  We went to the driving range for a bit of practice and a chance for them to impress me with their skills (since I'm such an ace golfer myself).  The rain started about the time we got the balls and was falling in earnest before they started.  But they worked their way through nearly two buckets of balls each and had a blast doing it.  We had to drag them away before the cameras and cell phones were destroyed.

Charmed

I live a charmed life.  I screwed up my flight info today and arrived at the counter just as the plane left.  No biggie, I have all day.  Hook me up with an alternate route. I managed a direct flight arriving 3 hours earlier than planned.  I didn't even need the M&Ms.

Travel Day

I'm at the airport and ready for a full day of short hop fights.  I have three books, half a pound of peanuts, a big bag of M&Ms and a lid back attitude.  The only drawback to my casual mood is that I'm within 20 minutes of finishing my book on tape.  I'm right in the middle of the big gun battle between the good cop, the crooked cop and the unstable, Mob hitman.  It isn't worth packing the walkman through security for 20 minutes so I'll have to wait until I get back for good to triumph over evil.

Wednesday, July 09, 2008

Last Day

Today is my last workday before vacation.  I find this to be both relaxing and stressful at the same time… or more accurately it is stressful but I don't care.  I'm trying to tie up a lot of loose ends but no one else is feeling the same sense of urgency.  That's okay in nine more hours I'll be able to let it all go.  One of the benefits of getting older is that I really can let it go and not worry about it while I'm gone.  I used to feel way too important to all of my projects like they would languish and die if I took some time for me.  I've seen enough key, critical people leave when the world continued to spin for me to still think that it spins around me.

Sunday, July 06, 2008

Return to DINK-dom

We are of course enjoying our weekend sans-children but it isn't as different from a weekend with children as one might imagine. We watched a ton of TV (the movies were better than when the kids are here but they were all old movies we've seen a million times). I've read two books, cover to cover, but nothing that I'd recommend. We performed our quarterly maintenance on the spa, replaced the microwave and repaired the island cabinetry. I went all the way to the store just buy chips. I even managed a haircut.

The only thing different from a weekend with the kids is that the cat slept with me all night.

Actually Sid's best friend from forever stopped by with his family for a few hours yesterday afternoon. The last time I saw them their oldest boy was three months old (he's Sunils's age). It was nice to visit for awhile but the boys would have enjoyed meeting our kids... and I'm sure Sunil would have loved to have two more playmates.

Thursday, July 03, 2008

Cheeze

In honor of Sheela's second favorite word (Cheeze) she selected the recently opened, long awaited Cheesecake Factory for our "you are an only child celebration" night after Sunil left. This restaurant is really wonderful but the portions are enormous. We skipped the appetizers and ate only a 1/3 of our meals. Sid had the Jambalaya, I had pecan crusted catfish with succotash and whipped new potatoes, Sheela had an 18" x 9" x 1/4" piece of chicken breast "breaded" with Parmesan and Romano cheeses and angle hair pasta. Even with taking most of it home we were unable to finish one slice of Cheesecake between the three of us. In our defense, the selected cake was a chocolate cookie crust, chocolate cheesecake topped with a layer of Belgian chocolate mousse, chocolate shavings and whipped cream. Then because Sid had was planning to order the hot fudge sundae cheesecake we had them bring us a pot of hot fudge to drizzle on top. Delicious but perhaps too decadent.

Tuesday, July 01, 2008

Alone

My littlest baby flew to TN alone today.  This is his first solo trip.  The early accounts are that it went well.  Sid dropped him off, the flight attendant actually sat next to him for part of the trip and Mom and John were on-hand to collect him on the other end.  Sheela flies out on Saturday.

Monday, June 30, 2008

Heard Museum


Sunil and I joined the Cub Scouts for an afternoon at the Heard Wildlife Museum and Animal Sanctuary. It was pretty warm but we managed a short hike past the beaver pond. I didn't see the beaver dam but it was pretty easy to tell that the area is still active. We also saw raccoon tracks, black walnuts and a ton of native wildflowers (Indian Paintbrush and Indian Blanket mostly).

The boys completed the (indoor) scavenger hunt learning about minerals, snakes, dinosaurs and birds. Then walked through the Animals of the world exhibits. It's an eclectic place.

My favorite part is the gemstone window it is made entirely out of naturally occurring gemstones sandwiched between panes of clear glass.

Pottery Class



The class was a huge success (and better for even Sunil than I expected). We each made four items mostly pots, some vases and a few plates. We get to return in a few weeks to glaze them. But her are a few pictures to make you jealous for not being with us....

By the way sometimes a pot is intentionally squishy around the top.. that doesn't mean it was a mistake

Saturday, June 28, 2008

Lunch

"Do not meddle in the affairs of dragons for you are crunchy and good with ketchup."

"Unattended children will be given sugar and a free puppy". 

"Beware of the Dog, the cat isn't trustworthy either"

The kids and I are having lunch at Chucks.  The burgers are thick and fresh, the shakes are thick and creamy and the signs keep me entertained. 

Friday, June 27, 2008

Daily Good Deed

I'm in the surgery waiting room waiting on a friend.  She is having a minor procedure but they will not do it if someone isn't in the building.  Her folks are travelling and her sister couldn't find someone to watch her kids so she could fly in.  I don't mind, this part of being a friend.  I have M&Ms and a coke, two books and a few hours.  The cafeteria will reopen in an hour and my world will be perfect. 

Monday, June 23, 2008

Presenting...



Sheela with her new glasses...

Clayhouse

We have a reservation for private pottery lessons on Saturday.  We are taking Jaz and Farhana with us.  It should be a lot of fun.

 

Sunday, June 22, 2008

Before I forget...


and while the fencing picture is still close at hand.... we spent today creating a flower bed along the side of the shed (the before picture with the fencing). We added five climbing Confederate Jasmines with trellises. They smell like heaven and such a simple chore took all day in the 100 degree heat. We intended to throw in a few rose bushes in front of them too, but we will need to widen the bed and wait for a better rose selection.

Cat nap


Maya spends a fair amount of her day chewing on our toes and climbing up our backs, but she also spends a fair amount of time sleeping. She is a champion, and very sweet, napper. Here Sheela has put her down under her (Sheela's) favorite wool blanket.

I missed this before


Sunil is teaching Grammylynn to fence.

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

10th Celebration

My cousin's family started a tradition where the kids get to choose a special event to mark their 10th birthday with varying degrees of "specialness".  We liked the idea so much that we've attempted to adopt it ourselves.  Sheela's first choice was to go for a ride on a submarine and discover new species.  We were, strangely enough, unable to pull that off.  However she has selected a back up plan that is workable though less dramatic.  She would like to learn to use a pottery wheel.  I'm waiting to here back from Quiggley's Clayhouse about their private lesson schedule.

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Weather

All in all I do love the weather here in Texas more often than not.  It can be cold and miserable or hot and miserable and sometimes both in the same day.  Today we are doing what Texas does best; the sudden storm and these aren't little passive storms but blow-the-windows-out-of-cars type storms.  It was beautiful this morning.  It will probably be beautiful again later this afternoon.  Right now though the wind is whipping and the streets are flooding.  We aren't in any danger of having the building flood but the streets are full right up to the curb tops and the rain just started 20 minutes ago.  I love a good storm.

 

Monday, June 16, 2008

Old eyes

My solution to the age old dilemma "should I or shouldn't I admit to needing reading glasses" is both simple and elegant. I'm going to make Sheela get glasses too! This will shift the attention off of me and on to her. Tricky, eh?

Actually neither of us know whether or not we will end up with glasses. I suspect that Sheela will, for me I'm not so sure. It has been six lovely years since my Lasik and I've been so cocky about my perfect vision that I've really not even gone for an exam in all that time. Now It takes me some time and effort to make my eyes focus, especially early in the day. We'll know on Saturday.

A casual Father's Day

We started with our traditional breakfast in bed... a jalapeno and onion omelet at Sid's request (and mini cinnamon rolls for me and the kids) followed by a family bike ride up to the Sprayground to cool off. We were in the water by 10 AM and back home before lunch. I still managed to sunburn but everyone else did great. The rest of the day was spent mostly laying around and watching movies (The Incredibles again at Sid's request) interspersed with signing sid's favorite song ("Dad is Great! Dad is Great!").

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Audit time

It is time again for our annual surveillance audit at work. This year everyone seems to be taking it in stride which is much more the way this is supposed to go. All of the departmental upheavals have settled down and the team's confidence is back up where it should be. I'll be very surprised if any big issues are uncovered.

The 'rents.... here and gone


Mom and John left this morning. They were here for a week or so and we got in a fair amount of family fun. We wrapped up Sunil's birthday celebrations with our traditional night at the ballpark. The 'riders pulled out a win in the bottom of the 13th inning. It made for a long night but the weather, the crowd, the game and the stadium were all great. Here Sunil and Sheela show off their muscles during "flex cam".

We managed to swim before the game and the next day too. We also spent a few hours ice skating before heading back home for naps with the cat.

Thursday, June 05, 2008

The Comfort Zone

One thing I don't do much of anymore is attempt to stretch my comfort zone but today I'm going to give it a little tweak.  I'm actually having lunch with a local headhunter that I've talked to off and on for awhile.  She knows I'm not interested in leaving my position but she also knows that I tend to know who would entertain new possibilities.  I've never actually met her but she invited me out to lunch today.  My circle of lunch dates has gotten very small through attrition and illness over the last three years or so.  It's time for a change.  So I'm going to go.  About the time I got comfortable with the idea of meeting her, she sprung another surprise on me.  She is bringing her boss too.  I don't know anything about him.  I'm sure it won't hurt.

Last Day

Today is officially the last day of the 2007-2008 school year here. The kids are thrilled. While I've mostly been giving the kids a hard time about not having to think at school for at least the last week Sheela did have a few large projects to turn in yesterday. It must not have all been fun and games. As an extra year-end bonus Mom and John have come to play with the kids for a week or so. Normally I'd be taking Friday off to stay home and play too but our traditional weekend at the ball park is getting a late start. The Roughriders are out of town until Sunday night. I'll take Monday off instead but it is making today seem even longer than normal.

Friday, May 30, 2008

Memorial Day Weekend


It was a rough work week after the long holiday. I'm just now getting to catch up on our weekend activites. The kids attended a birthday party at the Natatorium Friday night. Sunday we all went ice skating. This was a lot harder than it usually is, the ice was actually frozen. Monday I took the kids roller skating with the cub scouts. Sunil wore his own rollerblades (with training wheels) half the time and traditional skates half the timeSheela, Sunil and Zack (from up the street) sanded the shoe rack/bench that Sid built. We didn't get as far as painting it but it should be done tomorrow.

My Wolf Cub Turns Seven


Yesterday the cub scouts had their graduation ceremony. Sunil has achieved the rank of Wolf Cub. Typically this is when we get to start over with a whole new uniform. Actually, the shirt and belt are the same, the new neckerchief and slide were gifts from the pack. All I have to buy is a new belt buckle. I did buy him the wolf "baseball" cap too. As part of the ceremony his akela gets to change the neckerchief and present his awards. Here Sid does the honors.

This morning the little wolf was treated to donuts in bed in honor of his seventh birthday. The day should be more a less a party from the beginning. Today is Field Day at school. There are 36 different game stations about a third of which involve getting wet. We will go out to dinner tonight too.

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

Nonlinear time

I haven't mentioned it lately but I love my stackable, energy efficient washer and dryer.  I appreciate them every week but I've noticed that time doesn't work in the same straight forward fashion where they are concerned.  I first noticed it with the washer.  A typical wash cycle is 35 minutes.  It even tells you this when you turn the cycle on plus there is a handy digital display so you can keep track of the time remaining.  Theoretically then 36 minutes after starting a load it should be ready for the next load.  But instead it will get down to two minutes remaining and stay there for 2-5 minutes.  Which isn't too bad, when you get down to one minute remaining it can take as long as 10 minutes to stop.  Actually at that stage of the game it stops frequently according to all outward appearance and sounds but after resting for a minute or two it will rotate one more time before returning to hibernation.

 

What I didn't notice until yesterday is that the dryer has a strange sense of time too.  Again a typical drying cycle, according to the display, is 35 minuntes.  But by throwing a dry towel in with a wet load you should be able to cut the srying time roughly in half.  When I try this the timer cuts off about 15 minutes, this didn't seem strange.  My understanding is that it calculates drying time by humidity levels in the drum.  But after another five minutes or so it will add back ten minutes.  In the end I'm always surprised to find that the machine is still running when I think it should be done or that it is done when I think it should have stopped.

 

On a vaugely related note it does appear that adding the dry towel really does cut the drying time.

 

 

 

Monday, May 26, 2008

Home again again

Daddy is back! He even walked in under his own steam, much better than the paramedics carrying him out. His first question upon returning was about the health and welfare of his plants... he must be better.

Sunday, May 25, 2008

Sprinklers for barter

In lieu of repairing the damage to Sid's car, the guy that hit him put in a sprinkler system for us which we wanted but weren't ready to pay for.  Of course now have to fix the car... Of course Sid's got a guy....

Any how the new system took 15 guys less than four hours to set up from start to finish.  It has 8 zones and a rain guage.

What a differance a day makes

Daddy looks great today!  He feels 100% better and looks even better than that. 

Hospital Again

Daddy dehydrated yesterday and then fainted.  He ended up back in the ER for the night, once again there weren't any available rooms for the night.  He's absorbed plenty of IV liquids and is much better this morning.  He moved to a room was given his breakfast.  He may stay another day or two but we expect him back home before much longer.

Friday, May 23, 2008

It's less about willpower and more about reputation

I just ate a huge, and unnecessary, slice of lemon cake topped with 1" of buttercream icing and lemon gel.  I wasn't hungry.  I wasn't craving sweets.  I was not being pressured by anyone in particular to fatten up.  But I'm well known around here for always trying the cakes, pies, cookies, etc.  As soon as someone spots a "food" celebration of any kind, but particularly the sweets I start getting phone calls.  As I love being kept informed of everything large and small I make it appoint to never pass up the eats when the communication network kicks in.  On the other hand when a get calls number 2-10 I tell them I've already had my piece…. Maybe I could tell that to caller number one as well. 

 

Thursday, May 22, 2008

Home

Daddy came home from the hospital last night.  I think that he is pleased to be back.  He's not entirely back to normal but he is well on his way.

 

Monday, May 19, 2008

Hospital Update

Daddy is still in the hospital but feeling a little bit better and being allowed to drink clear liquids.  He will graduate to soft foods by the end of the day and may come home tomorrow.  We bought him plain yogurt to start off, the hospital would gladly supply fruit flavored yogurt but they don't carry plain and he's always eaten it plain.  In general my high opinion of the hospital is slipping a bit here and there.  The waiting 22 hours to get out of the ER and in to a room seemed to be excessive, the cafeteria closing at 2:00PM so Mommy has to by dinner at lunch time and hold on to it was a stretch but apparently the cafeteria isn't open at all on Sundays.  I didn't find this out until this afternoon.  We've been taking turns bringing Mommy home every day for an hour or two to get cleaned up and eat at least one meal.  She has been taking stuff back for in the evenings to supplement what she can get out of the cafeteria.  I would have made more of an effort to go out there last night if I'd known she only had one portion of Ramen noodles.

What a weekend!!


Sunil and I camped up at Lake Texoma with the Cub Scouts on both Friday and Saturday. There wasn't much expected of us in the way of organized activities so the kids spent their down time climbing all over these two stacks of felled trees. They were stacked up to about nine feet high at the highest point.

We also hiked to the lake twice, once off trail and once along the jeep road as part of a scavenger hunt.

The weather was nearly perfect. It was in the upper 60s at night and upper 80s during the day. Cool enough for a campfire but warm enough to be comfortable. We told the boys they could start the fire at anytime as long as they used only sticks, twigs and pine needles. But we'd light a fire with a match around dinner time. They rubbed those sticks together for over an hour.

While we camped and hiked Sid and Sheela went with the HATs crew on a multi-age mountain bike trip at Lake Ray Hubbard. They did some paved path, some jeep road and a little bit of trail, then ended it with a swim in the lake. In the evening they went to a crawfish boil.

Sunday we managed to surprise Sunil with a birthday party in our own backyard. I think there were 12 kids there, mostly from the neighborhood. We borrowed the nine foot tall inflatable waterfall, and gave all the kids serious squirt guns. The kids that lived close then ran home and came back with their super-serious water arsenals and it was a free for all followed by cake. A good time was had by all.


By the end of the night I was wiped out. Sid managed to convince the kids to cook dinner for us (well, reheat all of the leftovers) and serve us while we lay on the couch in front of a movie. It was approximately our millionth viewing of The Incredibles.

Saturday, May 17, 2008

Camp James Ray

Sunil and I have gone camping for the weekend with his cub scout pack.  It is a two night event but we are the only ones here form his den.  Some of the others will come for the day tomorrow and almost everyone will stay the night. 

It was after 9PM and already dark when we arrived so we haven't really seen the place but it seems nice.  Our tent is snug and comfortable.  Sunil is sprawled out next to me on the air mattress sound asleep.  I can't seem to fall asleep though I'm pretty relaxed.  I think the problem is that I miss my pillow, I don't rough it as well as I used to.

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

F-I-L

It looks like my father-in-law is in the hospital for a few days.  He has pancreatitis so he is really appreciating that morphine drip right about now.  The normal causes have been ruled out (gallstones and heavy drinking) so they still have some work to do before they can really determine a treatment plan (aside from the standard 3-4 days without food).  At least they have addressed the pain.

A quiet celebration

My 40th birthday has come and gone.  It was low key and perfect.  I was taken to lunch by a huge group of friends from work and had a quiet dinner at home with the family.  I've received two cakes, a ton of chocolate, a bouquet of flowers, a few gifts, many cards and emails.  Life is good!

Sunday, May 11, 2008

The cat genie saga continues....

Gina loved the Genie but she wasn't ever very clear on the dig and bury concept. She figured if her front feet were in she was good to go.... so she peed over the side many times ever day. Maya being much smaller can at least get all the way in and seems to have the basics down but she hasn't adjusted to the washable granules. SO she is back using clay litter in a metal tray. They tray is slowly migrating across the room to be in the vicinity of the Genie. The we will start the conversion process from one to the other. We are following a very detailed (usually successful) method and I have high hopes for our eventual success.

Scouting


I attended my first scout meeting last week. The cubs made birdfeeders and we planned for next weekend's two night camping trip.

Happy Mother's Day to us all

Here Sunil and his best friend put on a Mother's Day show.

Saturday, May 10, 2008

Hello Summer

We jumped up into the upper 90s yesterday and it looks like summer is here to stay.  Apparently I napped through the heat yesterday (I took the afternoon off from work) and was totally unprepared to sweat through today's t-ball game.  Sunil and I have each finished a water bottle and they haven't even finished warming up yet.  I'm off to the snack bar to blow our hot dog money on sport drinks.  Have I mentioned how wonderful the shade structures are lately?

Friday, May 09, 2008

We are pleased to introduce.... Maya





She is roughly seven weeks old and very sweet. Today she was allowed access to only the master bathroom. Tonight she and the children will also be allowed in the master bedroom (while Sid and I sleep somewhere else). Tomorrow she will get to spend some time in the rest of the house.

Saturday, May 03, 2008

Gina

It was a sad day here today. I had to have Gina put to sleep. She was not feeling quite the thing this morning. Her kidneys had failed as a result of what was probably cancer in her stomach. I was with her at the end and had a chance to say goodbye myself. I've told already told Sid and Sheela and will tell Sunil when he gets home from his friend's house.

I picked Gina out as a kitten 14 years ago while Sid's ship was deployed. At that time she weighed less than a pound. It was just the two of us for the first few months and then again when Sid was off in Indianapolis (changing his name to Sid). She lived with me in eight different houses/apartments over three states. She weighed as much as 18 pounds but still managed to jump up on the bed, chairs and counters. She slept beside me part of the night almost every night. I'm really going to miss her.

Thursday, May 01, 2008

You might be from Texas if



The birdbath in your front yard was purchased at the local grocery store, is shaped like the "Great State", displays boots, longhorns and/or the state seal. You are from somewhere else but have lived here too long if you see it and even for a minute think "hey, that's cool!"

I need to leave.

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Spring Trips

Sunil gets to avoid the locked down test atmosphere at school by going to the Dallas Arboretum (http://www.dallasarboretum.org/) with his class.  They've just finished the Dallas Blooms Festival and are gearing up for their May Flowers event.  I love the arboretum; it overlooks White Rock Lake and always looks wonderful.  They couldn't ask for better weather either.  Sheela's grade is taking an all day (6am-9pm) Field Trip this week down to the state capital.  They'll get to visit an awesome museum and take a tour of the capital building.  They've been gearing up for this since early Fall.  This is a guided tour arranged by a group called Education in Action (http://www.educationinaction.org).

 

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

TAKS Traditions

Today is yet another round of TAKS testing here in Texas.  Today the 4th graders are tackling the math test, tomorrow they will tackle reading.  As part of the campaign to make the children perform at their optimum levels we were once again instructed to get them to bed on time (a good night's rest is important), feed them a nutritious breakfast (the most important meal of the day) and send a healthy snack (not that usual garbage), there will also be no visitors allowed at school, no talking in the hallways and no outside recess.  I hate the implication that the rest of the year doesn't matter however we do try to do our part.  For me, that means providing the healthy snack.  We always pack fresh berries for TAKS day.  Sheela loves the fresh fruit.  Sunil particularly loves the fruit because he gets it without having to take the test.  Of course I get what they don't need… bonus for me.  Today it is strawberries, blackberries and raspberries.

 

Monday, April 28, 2008

Birthday Season

The birthday season is officially underway.  "The girls" celebrated friend Brenda's birthday yesterday with a casual get together at her house.  We let her cook for us (turkey paninis, jalapeno poppers and pasta salad) and watched a movie (Dan in Real Life).  We chose a date for my birthday do (dinner and STOMP at the Music Hall).  This will actually not happen until roughly a month after my actual birthday but we've had to get more and more flexible as everyone's kids have grown older and their lives more chaotic.   And we've tentatively chosen a date for a surprise party for Sunil.  Now we just have to keep him distracted enough that he doesn't notice a lack of party planning.  This shouldn't be too hard to do as we usually end up rushing at the last minute anyway.

I've also managed to purchase tickets for his birthday ballgame and have tentative reservations at the hotel.

Friday, April 25, 2008

Uh-oh

I've misplaced my camera.  I'm not ready to call it lost.  I'm sure it will turn up but it has probably been more than a week since I've seen it.  I don't remember the last time I had it.  I've filled in with pics from my PDA (most of the Lake pictures and the flower pictures from last week were from the Blackberry) but I want my real camera back.  Maybe I'll look around under the seats in the car at lunchtime…..

 

Religion

I'm not going to dive in to my personal feelings about organized religions beyond saying that they serve a purpose in the world and some people need them more than others.  The level of passion present when people feel that their personal choice is being "dissed" can seriously interfere with logical thought and productive communication.  These sorts of issues have played an exceedingly small role in our multicultural household but are taking a huge toll on the extended family these days.  I'm hoping that they all just get over it.

 

Monday, April 21, 2008

Sunday, April 20, 2008

Happy endings

We did hear back from both of the other dens and Sunil has been reabsorbed in to another den. This is the reason why I sew on badges and patches instead of ironing them on. I only have to change out one instead of starting over with a whole new uniform.

The new den went bowling last night. Sid and Sunil both had a good time.

The property




Brenda and Jeremy own a piece of land near the park. We stopped by before and after our lake adventure to check it out. They keep it mowed down around the front where the house will someday be but today it was a carpet of wildflowers and snakes. In fact when we went back Jeremy was about halfway done with the Spring mowing. It looked prettier before but if they don't keep it cut it will quickly get out of hand especially if our summer is as wet as last year was.

Canoeing cut short


We took a ride up to Lake Ray Roberts State Park today to get out on the water with the family (and friends Brenda and Jaden). We rented a canoe and set off. Unfortunately there are no sheltered accesses to any of the rivers and the wind was a little bit too strong across the Lake for us to leave the cove. So we lapped the cove a few times (it is very small) and then turned the canoe back in. Brenda and Jaden never even got their kayak off the roof.


Next we set off on a hike across some of the Texas prairie, through the woods and down along the shore with Lucky and Sprite (Brenda's dogs).



The wind away from the water was very pleasant and the sun warm but not hot. The hike wasn't long but Jaden's not quite four and his legs are short. So I'd call it perfect. We stopped for Mexican food on the way home and finished at home with a nap. I'd say it was a good day all the way around.

Saturday, April 19, 2008

Awnings

What a wonderful improvement, the bleachers are now protected by shade awnings making the T-ball games much more pleasant.  It's in the upper 80s and not a cloud in the sky.

Good news - Bad news

Well the roof damage is minor.  Only one square yard of shingles came down and the underfelt is in great shape.  We haven't had any water damage (and probably won't).  The roof is 16 years old with not even a hint of hail damage.  Around here that is pretty rare.  Well that is both the good and the bad news.  It won't take much to get the repair done but we won't be getting a whole new roof either.

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Disappointment

Sunil has really enjoyed Cub Scouts so far. Unfortunately his Den Leader's son hasn't. Once that child said he was done his father lost all interest in continuing the den. I can't say that I blame him, however we only had five boys to start with and two have dropped out, one transferred to another den, I never really knew the last family. That leaves us. The den leader tried to get the other den leaders to accept transfers but they never responded to his emails. I've tried emailing the one parent that I knew of one of the boys in a different den but didn't get a response. Now I've tried emailing the pack leadership and not gotten a response. The pack is so large that it is in the process of breaking in to two different packs. Apparently this is taking every one's time and attention. But the result will be that Sunil will not get do anything else with the scouts until September when he may no longer care.

This is more or less the way that Sheela's Girl Scouting experience ended too. Her troop disbanded at the end of the year. As it was most of the girls from her school were already in a troop so she was sent to a troop with kids from different schools. It sort of defeats the purpose of making school friends but I loved the kids and she made good friends. Unfortunately the parents all had trouble getting the kids to the meetings since they weren't after school and at school or even after work for that matter. When she tried to get reabsorbed in to the "after school, at school" troop it was still too full. None of their kids dropped out because it was easy to send the kids. All of the fallout was from those of us that had to deal with transportation. After fighting it for a month Sheela said she was over it and never mind.

Sunday, April 13, 2008

Sunny day


The iris are picking up speed. I have four chocolate daddies and three of these generic yellows blooming at the same time. There are 30 more chocolate buds and half a dozen yellows left to bloom.

I'm so excited about their vim and vigor that I rewarded them with a drink of highly concentrated compost drippings. This super rich broth has been collecting from our composter all winter and thankfully carries very little smell. I say "thankfully" as it was a blustery, sunny day and I was pouring this elixir while standing down wind. Live and learn.

Behold ..... the CatGenie


We have finally taken the next technological step in cat gear. We purchased a CatGenie. This fabulous device automatically disposes of cat waste in to the toilet (after disinfecting it)and then washes and sanitizes its own kitty granules. Thus keeping the bathroom odor free. All we have to do is flush the toilet from time to time.

Household chores


It was a busy day of catch up around here. Sunil helped Sid install new door pulls on the bathroom cabinets and kitchen drawers. Sheela helped apply our spring "weed and feed" to the lawn. I did some stuff. I don't remember what but I was busy.... really.

Friday, April 11, 2008

The Power of Power

Yesterday we tried to drop the kids at their normal time (20 minutes after being told that school was on) and were sent back home until at least the emergency lighting could recover.  Sid took them back around an hour later and was allowed to leave them even though they were a few minutes shy of total recovery. They never did see full power up at the kids' school.  Some rooms had lights some had functioning wall outlets.  The A/C never did come on.  When I went back to pick Sheela up for her dental appointment they didn't ask me to sign her out as they had no idea who was there or who'd been there earlier.  Without their computer tabulation systems they just couldn't keep track.  Half of Sheela's class showed up some in the morning, some in the afternoon almost none of them stayed all day.  Sunil had two thirds of his class show and they almost all stayed once they arrived.

 

A similar experience was had at the gym this morning.  The free weight room was closed (no lights and no A/C).  The machine weights were available under the unshaded bulbs of temporary garage lights.  The pools were filtering, pumping and well lit.  The aerobics room managed emergency lights and no A/C.  Most of the exterior lights are still out.

Thursday, April 10, 2008

Tornados

It was another exciting night of strong thunderstorms last night.  The sirens woke Sid up around 3 AM.  I was awake but still didn't notice them.  We had 70 MPH winds and tornados.  My co-worker watched the tornado go past his house and right towards ours.  We lost some fence, a bunch of shingles and both trees and light poles in the neighborhood (but not ours).  The power we out for four or five hours -- long enough to delay school for the kids.

The real chaos for me is really at work.  I was planning on taking the day off.  I have a dental appointment this morning and then Sheela has hers this afternoon.  We usually schedule together but had to give that up for our vacation.  Instead of staying home I had to go in.  We lost power to the freezers around 6am but we don't know how long it was out.  I have to find out and then evaluate the condition of the frozen products.  The cleanroom also needs to be evaluated.  That power was out for 20 minutes.  And we lost the only server in the building old enough to run the label programs.  I will have to in and work through lunch to get around that.

Tuesday, April 08, 2008

Chocolate Daddies

Three of the five iris that are about to bloom in my front yard are "Chocolate Daddy". I knew that I had one but the other two are bonuses. I have more than 14 buds all told so far. They aren't in the best spot (there isn't quite enough sun under the live oak tree and I know that Grammy would want me to pull up and destroy one of the plants as inferior but I can't bring myself to do it. That one (the only one actually blooming) isn't strong enough for the blooms to push their way free of the leaves. The tips are still tucked inside when the stem starts to grow which is warping the stem and the flowers are actually upside down. It is too dark to take a picture tonight. Next fall when it comes time to split them up and replant I'll try to find a sunny spot. Maybe next year they will be able to grow straight and tall.

Mid-week blahs

Not much to say, not much to do. Tonight we plan to straighten out our latest paperwork collection. We accumulate about a pound and a half of paperwork a week that needs to be received, paid, cross-referenced and filed. We are pretty good at everything except the filing. But without that we keep losing the pinball machine, the desk and the open floor space to piles of loose papers. It's not pretty.

Monday, April 07, 2008

Jury Duty - check

I've been dismissed without being selected to serve.  It took less than two hours out of my morning and the court is very near the office.  I'll grab an early lunch and head in to work for the afternoon.  The best part is this gets me another 24 months without having to serve.

Saturday, April 05, 2008

Season Opener

A month after the seaon opened Sunil's team finally played a game.  Every other game has been rained out, even the make up games.  We couldn'd have asked for a better day today.  It is beautiful.  Sunil had a few good hits off the tee and managed to catch a pitch.  That is pretty good for t-ball.

Friday, April 04, 2008

Blake Rae

Little Blake should be celebrating his 6th birthday today.  We wish him well.

Spring cleaning

This week was supposed to be spring cleaning week at work but I didn't get much cleaned out.  Half the time I was wearing skirts and high heels which are not my idea of cleaning attire and the other half of the time I was kipping work to attend the golf tournament or playing catch up from vacation.  It has been a terribly productive week with should be read as "my desk is messier than ever".  I hate a messy desk but we are pulled so tight these days I never seem to get anything finished enough that I can put it away.

 

The golf tournament worked out to be perfect this year.  We did not have tornados, electrical storms or baseball sized hail all of which were predicted.  True the wind gusts were extreme, but the temperature was in the mid 70's and the overcast sky meant we didn't have to squint.  My foursome tied for last instead of losing outright and we more than made up for it by laughing ourselves sick.  Even better our highly competitive President did win, so he should be in a good mood for the next six months.

 

Now I have to decide if I want to clean my desk, or do real work.  The nice thing is that either way I'll feel better when I'm done.